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		<title>Kicking It</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 19:45:03 +0000</pubDate>
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&#8220;Homelessness and soccer,&#8221; Josh said after we watched this and had dried the happy tears. &#8220;It&#8217;s like this movie was made for you!&#8221;  Right.  
Add to that the fact that we watched it online, we watched it together, I teared up often with very little provocation, it involved travel and interviews with beatiful [...]]]></description>
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<p>&#8220;Homelessness and soccer,&#8221; Josh said after we watched this and had dried the happy tears. &#8220;It&#8217;s like this movie was made for you!&#8221;  Right.  </p>
<p>Add to that the fact that we watched it online, we watched it together, I teared up often with very little provocation, it involved travel and interviews with beatiful people, and I&#8217;m now sharing it with my friends via social networking tools&#8230; even has a cameo by some cute little birds.  Me in a nutshell!  Current obsessions, what I love, what I do, what I see, what life is made of these days.  The only thing missing is me writing a song about it or mixing some of the soundtrack into a set.  (But this quote from the unlikeliest of sources rather covers that part of my life I think: &#8220;the limelight&#8230; sometimes isn&#8217;t the best light.&#8221;  That and &#8220;I&#8217;m the king of the penguins!&#8221;)</p>
<p>All kidding aside, I would recommend this to anyone, even if you don&#8217;t work at a nonprofit or obsess about futbol.  If you&#8217;re human, this beautiful documentary is worth your time.  You don&#8217;t even have to know what a pitch is.  </p>
<p>It&#8217;s available right now on Hulu for free, so please pass on the link, or embed it on your own site.  I&#8217;d love to hear your thoughts.  What/who moved you the most?</p>
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		<title>This is how the web winds now</title>
		<link>http://tamaraweikel.com/2009/05/02/this-is-how-the-web-winds-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 03 May 2009 04:24:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tamara</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[And where my Saturdays go.  And why I still haven&#8217;t uploaded any of the bird/Tubs/dungeness/Voluntweetup/chickadee pics to Flickr, or finished the site redesign, or returned Andi&#8217;s phone call, or answered emails in my stupid Facebook inbox (I hate having inboxes everywhere), or figured out how to design iContact emails properly for SMC, or done [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And where my Saturdays go.  And why I still haven&#8217;t uploaded any of the bird/Tubs/dungeness/Voluntweetup/chickadee pics to Flickr, or finished the site redesign, or returned Andi&#8217;s phone call, or answered emails in my stupid Facebook inbox (I hate having inboxes everywhere), or figured out how to design iContact emails properly for SMC, or done the laundry. </p>
<p>It all started with <a href="http://twitter.com/christinelu/status/1682809073">a tweet</a>: Christine Lu linking to <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/jaxxon/72032259/">this photo </a>with nothing more than the words &#8220;this is beautiful&#8221;.  Who knows why we click on what, but I suppose the urge to seek out beauty is part of what makes us human, and is as good a reason as any other.  Besides, if I&#8217;m following someone on Twitter it means they&#8217;ve already pointed me to something of value, so I&#8217;m more open to following their finger if they point and go &#8220;oooh!&#8221;.  (Granted I opened it in another tab at halftime and didn&#8217;t acutally look at it until <em>after</em> the Sounders game ended and I started breathing again, but still you get the point.)</p>
<p>It was a photo on Flickr.  One click away was <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/jaxxon/71997087/in/photostream/">a photo titled &#8220;Puzzle Grass&#8221;</a>, of a plant we used to play with as kids in the forests and trails of the Pacific NW where we grew up.  A very strong and familiar sight, I found it even more beautiful than the previous photo.  I love how a person can wander around Flickr and get lost in the visual thicket.  I couldn&#8217;t remember the name of this plant, so I read through the comments.  Someone asked &#8220;how high do they grow and what eats it?&#8221; which made me want to know too.  So I did the natural thing, and <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Equisetophyta">looked it up on Wikipedia</a>. </p>
<p>While reading through the article I remembered that we used to call them &#8220;Tinker Toys&#8221;, and almost commented about that, but the whole thing had gotten so interesting that I couldn&#8217;t turn back.  I also I couldn&#8217;t remember whether we&#8217;d even had tinker toys as a child, was that even a sensible thing to call it?  And so I looked that one up too.  <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tinker_toys">Reading about Tinkertoys </a>led me to Danny Hillis&#8217;s tic-tac-toe-playing computer built out of Tinkertoys, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/W._Daniel_Hillis">reading about Danny Hillis </a>led me to The Clock of the Long Now, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clock_of_the_Long_Now">reading about The Clock of the Long Now </a>led me to the Long Now Foundation, and <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Long_Now_Foundation">reading about the Long Now Foundation </a>made me feel warm and hopeful and made me think about thinking.  <a href="http://tamaraweikel.com/2009/05/02/this-is-how-the-web-winds-nowthis-is-how-the-web-winds-now/">And here we are</a>.</p>
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		<title>Finally finished a blog post&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://tamaraweikel.com/2009/04/17/finally-finished-a-blog-post/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2009 23:08:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tamara</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[...and posted it somewhere else.  (Click thru to see my Unite to End Homelessness blog guest post!)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8230; and posted it somewhere else.  <img src='http://tamaraweikel.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
<a href="http://unitetoendhomelessness.wordpress.com/2009/04/17/guest-blogger-tamara-weikel/">http://unitetoendhomelessness.wordpress.com/2009/04/17/guest-blogger-tamara-weikel</a></p>
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		<title>A sad day</title>
		<link>http://tamaraweikel.com/2009/03/17/a-sad-day/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Mar 2009 21:10:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The presses at my favorite local paper stopped today. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/lifeasart/3363602464/" title="A somber day by Life As Art, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3552/3363602464_cc43297bfd.jpg" width="500" height="375" alt="A somber day" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.seattlepi.com/">http://www.seattlepi.com/</a></p>
<p>The presses at my favorite local paper stopped today.<br />
<a href="http://www.seattlepi.com/local/403845_deaths17.html ">http://www.seattlepi.com/local/403845_deaths17.html </a></p>
<p>My heart aches to see something so solid, such a part of the history of our city, this solid daily familiar, up and disappear.  I do not look forward to seeing the empty boxes on the street.  I don&#8217;t see how they&#8217;ll do anything but stand empty and hollow.</p>
<p>146 years.</p>
<p>It will be interesting to watch as the paper goes online-only:<br />
<a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2009/03/17/business/media/17paper.html">NY Times</a><br />
<a href="http://blog.seattlepi.com/whatsnew/archives/164244.asp">http://blog.seattlepi.com/whatsnew/archives/164244.asp</a><br />
<a href="http://www.seattlepi.com/connelly/403914_joel18.html">http://www.seattlepi.com/connelly/403914_joel18.html</a></p>
<p>I think they&#8217;ve already made some great strides with their web efforts; particularly with the <a href="http://blog.seattlepi.com/thebigblog/">Big Blog</a>, some <a href="http://blog.seattlepi.com/reader.asp">solid reader blogs</a>, and their <a href="http://blog.seattlepi.com/myseattlepix/">photosharing service</a>.  I think the most unfortunate thing about the situation is the loss of their greatest asset &#8211; a big group of seasoned newspeople working together and constantly sharing knowledge and history.  And not just institutional knowledge.  There&#8217;s a lot to be said for collaborating with a large group of deep thinkers, be it in newsrooms, classrooms, or an office.  See: thinktanks.  Right?  And from what I hear (and read) that newsroom was a collection of some of Seattle’s brightest minds.  I have some faith that the small team that remains will be able to cover quite a lot as multimedia reporters and news gatherers; but will they have much time for reflection?  And who isn’t sticking around?</p>
<p>I do love the writing that the staffers have been doing about their experience at the paper, the future of news, and about the whole process of the closure.  There&#8217;s been a lot of very personal, open, and honest writing from all sorts of different voices, strong likable human voices.  The writers and employees have become the story, and for the first time in many cases I feel like we&#8217;re seeing the people behind the news at the heart of our city.  It really makes you aware that the employees of the P-I are our neighbors and it feels like an honor to be able to walk with them through a transition like this.  Take some time to poke around and read some of their fine work from February.  The stories are amazing.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/lifeasart/1400853860/" title="the Seattle P-I by Life As Art, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1021/1400853860_da4d386ce4.jpg" width="500" height="335" alt="the Seattle P-I" /></a></p>
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		<title>Tuesdays</title>
		<link>http://tamaraweikel.com/2009/03/10/tuesdays/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2009 00:58:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tamara</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Announcing the March SMC event....]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tonight, treat yourself to something sweet.</p>
<p>Next Tuesday, wear green.</p>
<p>Tuesday after that?  Plan on having some amazing conversations and meeting some cool people, because you&#8217;ll be mixing it up at another Social Media Club event.  (Oh and you&#8217;ll also be wishing me a happy birthday, if I&#8217;m lucky.)<br />
Details shortly!</p>
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		<title>Thank yous!</title>
		<link>http://tamaraweikel.com/2009/03/08/thank-yous/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2009 03:06:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tamara</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The "Strength in Numbers" video.]]></description>
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		<title>Ocelot kittens!!!!!</title>
		<link>http://tamaraweikel.com/2009/02/13/ocelot-kittens/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2009 20:50:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday, Woodland Park Zoo's new Ocelot kittens (born Oct 30) went on view for the first time... read on for cuteness]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yesterday, Woodland Park Zoo&#8217;s new Ocelot kittens (born Oct 30) went on view for the first time.  So if you and your sweetie need a super dose of cute tomorrow, I recommend hitting the zoo around 2 or 3 pm for Valentine&#8217;s day. </p>
<p><a href="http://woodlandparkzblog.blogspot.com/2009/02/ocelots-make-their-debut.html ">http://woodlandparkzblog.blogspot.com/2009/02/ocelots-make-their-debut.html </a> (I love the zoo blog!)</p>
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<p>If you don&#8217;t have/need a sweetie, then go earlier for extra cute therapy and visit the red-tailed pandas, the baby gorilla, the snow leopard&#8217;s new girlfriend, the otters, and the tiny cute fuzzy nocturnal things at the end of the day/night exhibit.  Always works for me.  </p>
<p><a href="http://www.zoo.org/">http://www.zoo.org/</a><br />
follow the zoo on twitter: <a href="http://twitter.com/woodlandparkzoo">http://twitter.com/woodlandparkzoo</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/lifeasart/3277456912/" title="2006_05020271.JPG by Life As Art, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3353/3277456912_270f60b85f_t.jpg" width="100" height="75" alt="2006_05020271.JPG" /></a>  <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/lifeasart/157358776/" title="My kitty does this, too by Life As Art, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/59/157358776_f614b127a4_t.jpg" width="100" height="75" alt="My kitty does this, too" /></a>  <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/lifeasart/251122661/" title="fox yawn by Life As Art, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/101/251122661_e12b33b68f_t.jpg" width="100" height="75" alt="fox yawn" /></a></p>
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		<title>She is Katia</title>
		<link>http://tamaraweikel.com/2009/01/22/she-is-katia/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jan 2009 02:47:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tamara</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[And she is my new silent hero:
http://iamkatia.blogspot.com/
&#8220;Look at his face.&#8221;
(Exactly what your gift can accomplish, my dear.  Do the book.)
Really look at them, the people, the kids.  What&#8217;s so different?  And what is all of that mess and chasm that stands between us?  What is it going to take, what can [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And she is my new silent hero:</p>
<p><a href="http://iamkatia.blogspot.com/">http://iamkatia.blogspot.com/</a></p>
<p>&#8220;Look at his face.&#8221;<br />
(Exactly what your gift can accomplish, my dear.  Do the book.)</p>
<p>Really look at them, the people, the kids.  What&#8217;s so different?  And what is all of that mess and chasm that stands between us?  What is it going to take, what can we do?  Not just for other people, but about all the junk that blocks reasonable connection and passage.  And whose fault is it?  Damnit.</p>
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		<title>SMC Seattle is go!</title>
		<link>http://tamaraweikel.com/2009/01/21/smc-seattle-is-go/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2009 07:45:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What a wonderful event we had last night at the lovely atrium @HQ of Visible Technologies in Pioneer Square.
The people that made it happen:
social-media-club-seattle-who-we-are
As I walked around the room, I was so excited by the kinds of connections and exciting conversations developing right before my eyes.  I got to talk to some very interesting [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a wonderful event we had last night at the lovely atrium @HQ of Visible Technologies in Pioneer Square.</p>
<p>The people that made it happen:<br />
<a href="http://seattlesmc.wordpress.com/2009/01/14/social-media-club-seattle-who-we-are/">social-media-club-seattle-who-we-are</a></p>
<p>As I walked around the room, I was so excited by the kinds of connections and exciting conversations developing right before my eyes.  I got to talk to some very interesting people with some very interesting ideas (more on that shortly), and of course the great thing about social media is that we can all connect and continue the conversation <a href="http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=41266930517">online</a>.  Perhaps we were all just extra-open and pleasant because we&#8217;d had <a href="http://www.inauguration.dc.gov/index.asp">such a good day</a>; but I really think that there was a special dynamic last night of <a href="http://search.twitter.com/search?max_id=1136736297&#038;page=1&#038;q=smcseattle">valuable exchange between creative and future-forward professionals</a>.  And I don&#8217;t mean exchange as in barter/commodities, but a free, generous flow of ideas and willingness to learn.  Now that&#8217;s my kind of party.</p>
<p>Photos of the event:<br />
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More can be found on flickr with the tag SMCSeattle.  And we&#8217;ll have more on the <a href="http://seattlesmc.wordpress.com/">SMC Seattle blog </a>shortly.</p>
<p>Also thanks to our sponsors <a href="http://www.visibletechnologies.com/">Visible Technologies</a> and <a href="http://www.springcreekgroup.com/">Spring Creek Group</a>.  Those are a couple of really interesting companies; even if they hadn&#8217;t provided a venue, food, and free drinks I would suggest that you check out what they are doing in the world of Social Media and business applications.</p>
<p>Next month&#8217;s event is Tuesday, February 24th.  The featured speaker is <a href="http://www.chrisheuer.com/">Chris Heuer</a>, co-founder of <a href="http://www.socialmediaclub.org">Social Media Club</a> and Executive Director of the not for profit organization BrainJams, Inc.  And of course, we&#8217;ll be meeting monthly so your suggestions for speakers, discussion topics, venues, and sponsors are welcome.  </p>
<p>&#8220;If you get it, share it!&#8221;<br />
(I love that.)</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Josh gave me a notebook as a gift this holiday.  In it he has written one thought-provoking quote per week; 52 pages of hand-lettered bits written sideways so that one can stand it up and flip the pages over the ringed binding.  (I have to say that it&#8217;s killing me not to flip [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/lifeasart/3172418770/">Josh gave me a notebook as a gift this holiday</a>.  In it he has written one thought-provoking quote per week; 52 pages of hand-lettered bits written sideways so that one can stand it up and flip the pages over the ringed binding.  (I have to say that it&#8217;s killing me not to flip forward and read through the coming weeks; oddly for me, I have been able to resist so far.)</p>
<p>Here is his entry for the week of Jan. 5:<br />
&#8220;Life is a process.  We are a process.  The universe is a process.&#8221; &#8211; <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&#038;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fs%3Fie%3DUTF8%26redirect%3Dtrue%26search-type%3Dss%26index%3Dbooks%26ref%3Dntt%255Fathr%255Fdp%255Fsr%255F1%26field-author%3DAnne%2520Wilson%2520Schaef&#038;tag=tamarawecom-20&#038;linkCode=ur2&#038;camp=1789&#038;creative=390957">Anne Wilson Schaef</a><img src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=tamarawecom-20&#038;l=ur2&#038;o=1" width="1" height="1" border="0" alt="" style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" />.</p>
<p>Lord knows I&#8217;m a process.  My relationship with Josh, that&#8217;s a process, though fortunately still quite a pleasant one as we near the 4-year mark.  You, dear reader: our relationships and projects and conversations are a process.  And I certainly hope the universe is a process, because I&#8217;ll be damned if we&#8217;re stopping here.  </p>
<p>The nice thing about a philosophy like this is that it can get you through unpleasant patches.  It&#8217;s good to have a reminder like this on my desk, because I can get very impatient.  And I&#8217;m sure Josh is aware that this sort of thought may be of comfort to me, because I can be quite hard on myself.  And he knows I&#8217;m not 100% happy with where I am in life at the moment.  So something like this can serve as a reminder to persevere.  </p>
<p>As long as you look at it like this:  You need to be able to take a punch and get back up, fast.  Because there is a danger in comforting ideas and feelings from self-help-lands like the one Anne Wilson Schaef thrives in.  It is complacency &#8211;  and <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0062548549?ie=UTF8&#038;tag=tamarawecom-20&#038;linkCode=as2&#038;camp=1789&#038;creative=390957&#038;creativeASIN=0062548549">I&#8217;m sure she would agree</a><img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=tamarawecom-20&#038;l=as2&#038;o=1&#038;a=0062548549" width="1" height="1" border="0" alt="" style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" />.  I can be too hard on myself, true.  But sometimes, I also let myself get away with saying &#8220;there there, everyone has a hard time with that, wait it out, give yourself a break&#8221; when really what I need to do is get off my butt and/or stop feeling sorry for myself.  </p>
<p>At least on a daily basis, one can&#8217;t ignore how important it is to still be able to focus on &#8220;getting it done&#8221;.  Stressing out about finishing things can paralyze a person, true.  But never finishing anything will scramble your mind, your living space, and your very direction on the process-ey feely-free journey.  I know from both scenarios, and I&#8217;ll bet you I haven&#8217;t finished learning those lessons, either.  </p>
<p>Often lately, my blog posts seem to sit in &#8220;process&#8221; mode as little notes to myself or half-written drafts until they expire or become irrelevant.  <a href="http://twitter.com/lifeasart">Micro-blogging </a> satisfies impusive blurtings, and it takes more discipline to have a conversation.  I have such plans for this space, so many ideas I want to ask you about.  I suppose I&#8217;m busy finishing other things, but really I need an exchange, so the unfinished thoughts don&#8217;t just clutter my brain and my margins, and are subject to reality.  I&#8217;d like to believe that I won&#8217;t start and stop and waver and swerve, but I won&#8217;t deny that I tend to.  I hope that watching me struggle to become a better person will help you, and I&#8217;d really love it if you would write back to me and others reading this blog to inspire us with your own stories.  Because none of us really know what we&#8217;re doing.  Or hey, yell at me if I&#8217;m being stupid, or point out the obvious stuff I repeatedly miss.  Poke me if I slow down.  Whip, if you must.</p>
<p>So provoked.</p>
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